If anyone knows a girl named Carmen, will you tell her to stop messing with me?

lol, I know nobody on here is going to know who. I'm just so mad. She acts all nervous and shy around me, and sometimes ignores me, then sometimes actually initiates contact with me (people never do that.) And she keeps saying there's some guy she likes on facebook and stuff, and idk if it's me or not, but she has to keep it a damn secret. This has been fuking with my head for way to long now. oh, and no, it's not Carmen Electra, but I'm not saying her real last name.